hi everyone. it's been a while so now i'll let u know what's going on with me and my situation. me and my fiancee moved to another place and things have been going absolutely wonderful. our relationship is better than ever. he's not talking to his best friend as much. as a matter of fact, he hardly talks to her anymore at all. last night he woke me up out of my sleep and poured his heart out to me. he told me that i'm his best friend and that nobody else matters but me. he also told me that i've been there for him more than his best friend. he told me that she's no longer his best friend, that i am and i'm more important to him. he told me how much he loved me and how much i mean to him. he realizes that what he was doing was affecting our relationship. i couldn't be more happier. but now i'm having another dilemna. at work there's this girl who works there and i don't think she likes me. i know it shouldn't bother me cause i have a job to do, but i don't want to work in a hostile environment either. i've thought about going to my supervisor and saying something, but i don't want to get this girl in trouble if i'm wrong.the way she looks at me is the way you look at someone that u don't like. i never did anything to this girl. i've tried to be nice to this girl when she was new at the job.any advice on what i should do about this?

Hey everyone! This is Carmela. Thank you all so much for the much needed advice. Here is what's going on now with the situation. He read the letter and asked me if i meant what i wrote and i told him yes. He told me that he was willing to try but that there are no guarantees of us getting back together. Last night he shocked me by telling me that he had something to tell me. He's thinking about asking someone out. It's a girl that he's been chatting with online for the past couple of days. I've been up for the past two days crying my eyes out. I know that i'm a good woman and i don't deserve to feel like crap. We live together and he has the nerve to tell me that if he starts seeing this girl for me not to kick him out. I already made it clear to him that if he's going to get involved with someone else to let me know now before i give my hopes up about us working things out. I already specifically told him that there's no way in hell that he can still live with me while he's involved with someone else. So, what should i do now?

Hi everyone! I'm new to this. I really need some advice. Here's the story. I'm engaged to be married. My fiancee has a best friend, which happens to be a girl. I trust my fiancee completely. He's been nothing but honest and faithful to me. The problem is that every night all night him and his friend are on the phone. I told my fiancee how much this bothers me, but he tells me that if i spent more time with him then he wouldn't be on the phone so much. To make matters worse, last night i got up and i put my ear to the door to our computer room. I heard him singing a love song to this girl. Oh, did i mention that the door to our computer room is always locked when he's on the phone with her? So i confronted him on singing the song and he went off on me. He told me that i didn't have no business eavesdropping on his conversation and that their conversations are private and that i should give him his privacy. I walked off into the bedroom and he calls me. I come to see what he wants and he tells me that it's over and that he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I begged him not to do this. I wrote him a six page letter expressing how sorry i was for not respecting his privacy and i pleaded with him not to break up with me. He hasn't read the letter yet cause he's asleep. Was i wrong for writing the letter? What should i do about this situation? I'm in love with my fiancee and i don't want to lose him.

Signed,
In love with a broken heart